Deciding the venue and what to on the date
This differs according to the tastes of people. It depends on your taste and your partner’s taste. Let us see the different options that we’ve got.
| • | If it is your first date and you don’t know the other person too well: In this case, since you do not know what the other person likes, go for generally likeable places. It can be a good restaurant serving great food if it is a lunch or a dinner date. The dating venue must not be brimming with people. You and your date should be comfortable. Let the place not be too mushy and filled with romantics. Let not the environment force your date to make assumptions on the intention of this date. Make the venue a social one and not too private. Avoid private beaches and farmhouses. The environment should be pleasant and conducive to maintain a fair amount of comfort. We say fair amount of comfort here, because there is already a certain amount of anxiety about the outcome of this date. Both of you may be expecting different things from this date and may be your expectations are same. So avoid adding to the anxiety by choosing the wrong venue. Some common dating venues would be a movie, a nice cosy coffee shop or a park. And if possible, ask your date once before finally deciding if he or she is fine with the dating venue. |
| • | If it is your first date and you have a fair amount of knowledge about the person: This is indeed wonderful and makes a lot of things easier. For starters, you know what kind of places your date likes and dislikes. So you can choose accordingly. And if the date is your classmate since school, then you could always ask for her opinion. As far as possible, let the dating venue be a joint idea. Inputs from both the sides always help. |
| • | If it is not your first date with this person: There is absolutely no problem here. You guys know each other well already, just choose a place which is different from your usual places. Dating the same person in the same place can sometimes get boring. So add some spice to your dating day this time. You could invite your date to your home and feed her a meal cooked by you. Or you could drive her down to a private beach at night time and have a candle light dinner on the sands with the light waves washing your feet. Or it could be a bouquet dinner at an expensive hotel. If you want a simple yet a unique date, even something as ordinary as your terrace can get beautiful. Remember to fix a dinner for just the two of you and enjoy a pleasant evening under the star studded sky and the warm breeze. A long ride on the bike, a drive on your car on a peaceful road and some time spent alone in the place where you first met can stir up a lot of memories and happiness. You can even do things that you both enjoy together like cooking up a delicious meal or playing an outdoor game or any game on the computer which involves two players. Just let your creative juices flow to make this date special and different. |